Done Making It Work
A 12-week live program that gives women the dating education nobody gave them, so they can stop being afraid of what's out there and start choosing who gets their love.
Does this sound like you?
It's rough out there. And nobody taught you how to date in it.
01
You kissed him before you knew who he was.
Then you spent months finding out, one disappointment at a time.
02
You've said "we need to talk" more times than you can count.
He changes for a week. Then he goes back to who he is.
03
Every new match makes you nervous.
He could be kind. He could be the man everyone warns you about. You can't tell which until you're already in it.
04
Everyone asks when you're settling down.
Your mother, your coworkers, your friends. As if being chosen were the goal.
05
You've done the therapy.
You know exactly why you keep ending up here. Nobody told you what to do instead.
06
You're starting to lose hope.
You still want love. You're just scared of what's out there.
You were never broken. You were handed the wrong script.
Fairy tales taught you to wait to be chosen. Your friends taught you to kiss first and find out later. Nobody taught you how to observe, how to choose, and how to walk away. That's what we fix in 12 weeks.
A note from Chantal
"I'm not going to get lost in your story. I'm going to give you the rules."
Every week, hundreds of women join me live and tell me the same thing: they want love, and they're scared of what's out there. Most of them have read the books and done the therapy. They understand why they keep ending up in the same place. What nobody gave them is what to do instead.
I've spent my life reading people. I've written 14 books and sold more than 60,000 copies. And I haven't always been calm: I learned it, the same way you will. [Chantal's own story, 2 or 3 sentences]
In these 12 weeks, I carry the knowledge so you don't have to. I've been to the top of the mountain and back. I know where to put your feet. My job is to make it easy.
ChantalChantal Heide, Canada's Dating Coach
In their words
"I'm not going back to that same thing over and over again."
Working with Chantal has been amazing. I'm not going back to that same thing over and over again, the constant fighting and bickering. She made me realize that I am a good woman, that I don't deserve to be yelled at or lied to. I am starting to have healthy relationships where communication is the strong point.Colleen, 38 · office receptionist
Watch Colleen tell it in her own words.
Join the program
Two ways to join. Same rules, same results.
The program
Done Making It Work
12 weeks of live group coaching with Chantal. Payment plans available.
- 12 weekly lessons and rule sheets
- 12 live coaching calls with Chantal, recorded
- A real-life assignment and check-in every week
- Private community and your brethren pod
- Lifetime access to lessons and replays
VIP
The program, with Chantal by your side
Everything in the program, plus private time with Chantal. Payment plans available.
- Everything in the program
- 6 private 45-minute sessions with Chantal, every other week
- Direct messages on weekdays, answered within 48 hours
- A reserved hot seat in each phase
Limited to [10] women per cohort
Apply in the first 48 hours and get Chantal's Everything Package: all her e-books, audiobooks and resources, a $210 value.
Every woman joins through a short call. We share the investment and the payment options on that call, once we know the program is right for you.
$100 to $200
What one hour of therapy costs in the US and Canada.
Years
How long many women spend in talk therapy, understanding why they keep ending up in the same place.
12 weeks
To learn what to do instead, with rules you apply in your real life.
This program is coaching, not therapy. It doesn't replace care from a licensed mental health professional.
Is this for you?
For women who are ready to choose.
This is for you if
- You're single and dating feels confusing, or scary.
- You're in a relationship and you're tired of making it work.
- You've done the therapy and read the books, and you want to know what to do.
- You're ready to apply one rule a week in your real life for 12 weeks.
- You date men, women, or anyone in between. The rules are about how you choose.
This is not for you if
- You want to hate men. We don't. We love men who stand by our side.
- You're looking for someone to tell you you're right about him.
- You're in danger or in crisis right now. Please reach out to a professional or local support first: this program is coaching, not therapy.
Why women listen to Chantal
Women have trusted her voice since 2015.
42,000+
people who read her emails.
60,000+
books sold across her 14 titles.
3
awards for her coaching. award names
Her voice in the media
HuffPostContributor
GlobalFeatured
My Dating and Relationship PodcastHost
Followed by names you know.
From music to comedy to television, public figures follow Chantal on Instagram, alongside the women she coaches every day.
- Ricky Martinsinger
- Laverne Coxactress and producer
- Valerie Bertinelliactress
- Leslie Jonescomedian and actress
- Martha Plimptonactress
- Debra DiGiovannicomedian
Questions
Before you apply
When does the program start?
The next cohort starts on [January 11, 2027], with a welcome week before it. Applications close on [date].
How much time do I need?
About 2 to 3 hours a week: a 20 to 30 minute lesson, the live call, and your weekly assignment.
What if I can't make the live calls?
Every call is recorded and the replay is ready within 24 hours. You can send your question in advance.
Do I have to be on camera?
No. Camera is always optional, and you can send questions anonymously.
I'm in a relationship. Is this for me?
Yes, if you're tired of making it work. The rules apply to the person you're with, and to everyone else in your life.
Is this for women who date women?
Yes. The rules are about how you choose, whoever you choose.
Is this therapy?
No. It's coaching: practical rules and real-life assignments. It doesn't replace care from a licensed mental health professional.
Is Chantal a man-hater?
No. We love men who stand by our side. What we reject is abuse, lies and disrespect, from anyone.
What happens after I apply?
You book a 30-minute call. We talk about where you are and what you want. If the program is right for you, we tell you how to join, in full or in 3 payments. If it isn't, we tell you that too.
How much does it cost?
We share the investment on your call, once we know the program is right for you. Payment plans are available.
Stop making it work. Start choosing.
12 weeks to learn the rules nobody taught you, with Chantal live every week.
Apply now Next cohort starts [January 11, 2027] · Applications close [date]